Another fantastic week of rolling stress relief is in the tank. Political divisiveness, corona virusness, and smoke from distant fires notwithstanding, none of those things are fast enough to keep up with a bike. It was a good week. Good weeks are made up of good days.
If I could construct a good day, the framework would look something like this…
– Wake up.
– Meditate in a darkened shower under warm water until the warm water runs out.
– Sip coffee with a handful of pets on or near me while I write for an hour or so.
– Work a little bit — contribute in some way to the greater good of society by infusing some combination of effort, expertise, and dependability so that others can benefit from it.
– Spend a little time unplugged in natural surroundings.
– Cater to my creative side by taking and editing some photographs.
– Take a nap.
– Enjoy simple foods that allow me to feel and function at a high level.
– Enjoy some foods that just taste good, regardless of how they impact me.
– Spent time on a bike riding, but also contemplating life, and enjoying the scenery along the way.
– Relax in the evening. Write a little bit more. Spend a little bit more time with the pets. Go to sleep on the early side.
That framework is in place nearly every single day. A pat on the back to me, since I’m the general contractor of my life, as well as the framer.
Next up are the walls — both interior and exterior. Walls, of course, seal the framework. They keep the good stuff in and the bad stuff out. Hopefully.
For my interior walls, I like to use appreciation. Appreciation is the material best suited to protect the inside of my good days. When in doubt, or if I feel a bad day coming on, I look around and take inventory of all that I have and all that I am. More often than not, this helps me feel safe and acts as a layer of protection from any external obstructions￼.
For my exterior walls, I like to use low expectations. Low expectations of every body and every thing. When I start with low expectations, things can only get better, most of the time. Again, a necessary￼￼protective layer to any good day. ￼
That’s the basic structure of my good days — a good framework and sturdy interior and exterior walls. Each morning when I begin to build my days, I do my best to make sure the structure and the walls are in place. So why then, I often ask myself, isn’t every day a good day, if that’s all it takes…?
Of course the short answer to that is because I don’t live on an island. There are 7-billion people in the world not named Roy Cohen. Of those 7-billion, a very small percentage are injected into my life each day, often finding traction in my psyche. Some find me at my request, while others just find their way on their own. Regardless of who gets into my head or into my life, and whether they were invited or just showed up, I guarantee not one of them wakes up with the express intent of making my days better. That’s why a sturdy structure and good walls are so important.
That’s not to suggest anyone I’m connected with wakes up with the goal of deconstructing my days. Most are occupied with constructing and shoring up the their own days. When I stop to think about it, and I when I take inventory at the end of each day, most every day really is a good day. They just aren’t perfect days. Forces and obstructions get through, but if I’m being honest, the damage done is always minimal.￼
Storms happen. Rain falls, wind blows, and external forces brush up against or strike my good days continually, and do do all day long. Occasionally even termites get in. Whatever might’ve happened to my day yesterday though, if it was weathered, picked apart, or even if it were completely deconstructed, every time I wake up I have an opportunity to build a brand new good day.
It’s 5am. The framework of today is already in process and the walls will soon be lifted into place. Hello, good day, here we go again.￼
This is what I think about when I ride… Jhciacb
This Week By The Numbers…
Bikes Ridden: 6
15.0 mph avg
11 hours 37 minutes seat time
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5 thoughts on “Building A Good Day…”
Very nice!! Hope your day is still good as you read this, lol I like your useful analogy to building a structure. I’m probably better at tearing down a structure than building one. That’s why my tables usually stop with three legs.
PS: I’m having a good day 🙂
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Let’s just say it was a slow news day in my head, and that was actually what I was thinking about on yesterday’s ride.
Thanks for taking the time, Doc.
One thing I try and remember is that we really are our own general contractor’s, framers, and decorators…
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Solid my brother. This reminds me of
“Attitude” by Charles Swindoll
From the moment we wake up our Attitude and Behavior dictates the way we build each day. It lays down the foundation.
Some days the storms in my head destroy my days into darkeness. But the sun comes up and I have a chance to build a good day.
Thank you for your spoke and word.
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Thank you for taking the time, my brother. Suffice it to say this was a Pollyanna look at a day that I wrote at 4 o’clock in the morning. I know the darkness you speak of, and I know it well. There’s always the Mañana…
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Amen brother! Thank You. I’m thankful for the good support beams holding me up I’m managing it OK👊🏼🙏🏼❣️
Have a great day my brother keep on building that solid structure each and every day🤙🏽
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